Monday, 1 June 2015

We Live Forever

We get birth and that is starting of our life, thereon we never look back, just move on and on and on. Best phase in anyone’s life is the time of Love that phase makes us very happy and put us on a different track. I have come across people saying a very common thing during that phase “Jeena Marna Saath Hai” well reading further you will find many questions which I request you all to answer if possible. Well let me start with my first question; is it possible to die? If you will ask me then I will say no, as I have never seen even a single person dying. I have one more question, is death true? My take will be “Zindagi to bewafa hai ek din thukraagi, Moot Mahbooba hai saath leke jayagi”, person never dies but the attributes shown by one stops and that is how life moves on. We still remember people we lost way back we even remember people whom we never met nor seen them, but we remember them because of their attributes, if what I just said is true then way we says death as the biggest truth? One can look life as a round circle where every phase contributes in the cycle while others think it is a straight line having different slots for each phase of life and death is the end. I will end this with a question, what is truth?

Life with an aim to be a human


Life with an aim to be a human
One of the question for all of us (humans) is to define is life and if we ask this question to people each one of us will have a different answers, to make it more complicated if we ask this question to same set of people at different time you will get different answers, that is strange right?
As I grew up this question kept me busy understanding life, but whenever I asked this question to myself I always got an answer which opens up a new question, “is my life dependent on what is aim of life?” so now to understand like I will have to understand the aim of life that is too complicated and one the answers for life’s definition is “it is complicated”J.
As I was searching for definition of life and later on with the aim of life like anyone else here, I started asking this question to all of my friends and people related to me which made me realize that it not easy for anyone to answer and all of us have this question and all of us are searching for the answer, this thought inspired me to write this article so all of us can share the thoughts around this subject.
One of the thought by one of my very god friend which sounds very logical and realistic to me as in maps to my own thought is:
We all are sent to this world by god with only one notion “help people around you”
To relate to this phenomena I started analyzing my life so far and what I found was amazing. I found that whenever I found myself in any situation where I seek help as I am unable to find a way to move out of that problem after struggling for some time I find someone to help me out and soon I am out of the scenario and started living my life as usual. I found that the person who help me out stays with me for more time (as if he/she wants to make sure I don’t find myself in another problem), at the sad end to it on sometime we get so busy in our respective lives that we just loose connection and after some time we just remember the person in any similar situation(s), this makes me sad but at the same time it gives me sense of happiness that that person might be helping other person in trouble. On the same lines same theory applies when you help someone in trouble and in some time you lose contactL. This raises a bigger question for all of us, how we should live our life? Do we have any correct way? Is there anything we can do make this life worth?
Friends I don’t have answers to most of the above asked questions but what I definitely think is if you get help for someone in any situation we must reply this help by helping someone near us (may or may not be same person), we can do that it is start the wheel and very soon there will be no one in the world who needs help and is left without help.
What if we can’t help a person around us due to some limitations?

I believe passing this information that you can’t help the person is not less than helping the person and at the same time if we can guide the person on how and from where he/she can get help that will be additional sign of you being human and still alive.

Tuesday, 22 April 2014

Soul Walking

Soul Walking
I always wonder when people says:
“I wish I could fly and reach to my love”
“I wish I can talk to my love one just by closing my eyes”
“I wish I can see my love one moment I want to”
Fact around all these statements: two or more people are at a big distance but wanted to be together.
Question to all: is there anything, any process, any technology which can help in making this a reality?
Possible answers: yes they can use any latest technology like video conferencing, mobile phones etc to talk and see each other.
Well the solution provided is very impressive and very close to what people need (as per above statements), but I still think that is not 100% to what is required by those people. That gives us new direction to think and explain if there exists any other mechanism to the problem.
I believe many years ago, there was a dream which many people used to have, that was to fly in air, if we look today carefully, then we have many different ways to fly and more or less our wish is fulfilled, similarly I can feel a new wish of humankind that is can we travel to another location without carrying the bulky body!! That might sound funny to you but I am talking about soul walking. Now I believe many of us will start thinking about many movies we had seen in past where this topic is there.
I purely believe that we can divide ourselves into two major parts one what we can see and feel called body which is just a cover on top of our soul in the same way we put cloths on top of our body, another interesting about the soul and body is they both coexists and both of them have their own identity and significance. Last but not the least we do have many proofs that soul do exists in the same way body exists.
Since we ate sure that soul do exists so it is also very true that soul can walk (sounds funny again) but if we connect to many people around us we can be sure what I am saying is true, yes guys our soul can walk without needing our body.
That raises a question who we can let our soul walk and do what we wanted to do (I am still referring to above statements). Here is the path to let that happen, first of all we all have to understand that body and soul are two different things and both of them has their own identity, having said that we will also have to start defining what each one can do. Once this separation is completed we can let our soul fly the way we want and that will be the fast mode of communication between two people, but there is a catch to this, since our soul will be allowed to walk and fly (maybe) soul can connect to another soul only.


Keep thinking and let me know your thoughts.

Friday, 11 April 2014

Personal Identity

Personal Identity
Few days back I have got en email from one of my friend where she wanted to explain the importance of having an object or behavior to identify someone. That email really let me feel the importance of defining personal identity, it also let me feel do we really need an object or behavior to identify us? As I always believe nature can give answer to any question, I started looking around for the answer, and below are my findings.
Best start could had been by observing the biggest and one of the most important entity of nature, yes you are correct I am talking about sun, what is the personal identity for sun? Is it the fact that we can see sun every morning in East direction and in the West direction before it disappears? My personal answer was no, as for me the personal identity of sun is, he is the father of our solar system, he is the father of complete mankind, to make it best sun never sun himself did not created this as his personal identity, it is his soul that made us understand what sun is and that is how we know who sun is.
After Sun I did tries getting the same answer from many different natural entities like trees, clouds, air, water etc. and strangely I got the same answer, now it’s the time to get this answer from us, the most intelligent natural species / entity. Below are my observations and examples.
People who know me, they remember me for my jokes, suggestions I give to them when they are in trouble, they associate quotes they can see on my T-shirts etc. I feel a person don’t any tangible object to be there to identify one person, for me if your soul can connect to soul of other person that makes the personal identity of any person. That actually raise a very basic question, how do our soul connect to other soul. To answer this one need to believe in the existence of soul, let me try with few examples.
1.       Does it ever happened, that you come across few strangers around and after have a first round of shake hands (without knowing anyone of those new people) you start believing that one of those can be a good friend of yours and you start talking to him or her?
2.       Does it ever happened, that you wanted to talk to one of your friend and to talk to him/her you pick up your phone and suddenly leave your phone aside and decide that you don’t want to talk anymore and you will talk to your friend after sometime?
3.       One peaceful morning just few minutes after you get off the bed, you get a wave of thought that something will happen bad today and as day progresses you come across something unusual and that make you unhappy?
With my personal experience answer to each of the above question is yes, so that raises next question, how that happens. I don’t know the answer so I let you think about it and let me have your thoughts. Also please do let me know if we really need an object to identify us? I would also be interested in knowing your personal identity.

Thanks

Wednesday, 18 May 2011

Language Of Love

Everyone and anyone in this world talks about feelings/love/care etc. it wonders to me, what is the language in which one can talk about it? Do we have any language for this?

The language we use (English/Hindi etc) are they sufficient? Are these languages capable of talking about love? Does one really need a language to talk about this?

I know I have raised bit too many questions and that purely because I don’t have answer to any of these. As far as my knowledge about feelings and love, they are language independent i.e any language can be used to express these, but that really raises a question, what will happen if one can’t speak (mum)? Simple answer is he/she can express the feelings, is that correct? No they can still express feelings by using actions which is there to express the feelings, that is really a strange right? This is possible because we can understand what is expressed by actions by other, but is always true?

Can we understand all the actions by anyone around us? I will leave answer to this question for future. I always felt that yes, I can understand feelings from everyone, but we have so many living things around us, they all express love, they all have feelings which they express to us and most of the time we can’t understand that. Few days back I was talking to one of my friend, she was thinking to have a pet dog but she decided not to do that by giving a statement “They get attached to us so much that without us they feel alone and at the end they die” that scared me, how can a dog/animal die due to absence of master! How can a dog be attached to us? Is that the way to express feelings to us? Do your pet really wanted to be with you always and without you they might stop eating and die at the end? Do we understand this way of expressing feelings? If I believe this then we can understand feelings expressed in any way, is that correct? Think again. Have we ever realized the trees, plants flowers also express feelings? Bit strange right? As per my experience plants around us also wants care from us and in absence of which they can die L. Most of us places some or other plan in our home, when we plant them in home we pay some extra attention towards them later on we don’t even look at them and after some time we realizes that, plant is not there, after we ask someone in family the answer we get is “That plan was not growing well and was about to die so we replaced that with new one” we generally think that due to lack of light/water etc that happened, well it that 100% correct? Think that again.

I saw a movie few days back “hachiko” that movie talks about love and care that a animal can have for us. Please share your thoughts on this..

Monday, 21 March 2011

Wavelengths(ƛ) and vibrations(µ)

The best you can relate wavelengths and vibrations is physics right? Well that is very correct these words comes from science only and we all know science makes a significant impact in our life as well, just wanted to throw some light on impact of wavelengths and vibrations.

You must have come across a situation where you come across many unknown people at once and out of that group without evening knowing anything about them, you start your analysis i.e who is best for our friendship and with whom you will never wanted to be friends, correct? Have you ever thought why? Sometime just by looking someone’s snap we start analyzing what kind of person he/she will be, and we never get to know how we can do that just by having a look on a snap. Here comes science into picture, every object emits energy in terms of wavelengths and vibrations, like wise we also do the same, now whenever we meet a similar vibrations/wavelength we gave a positive signals and vice-versa. It goes true while we are doing shopping, before we try things on us we just look on that item and makes an initial decision, don’t you? People tend to justify it by saying it is not of our taste etc.. but at the end of the day it we a because of same principle of physics. Have you ever thought we like just few colors out of millions of colors we have around us? Just by knowing kind of color one likes the most and lease one can predict what kind of person he/she can be, and yes the reason we like only few colors is again because of same old physics. Now since we know the role played by ƛ and µ next thing is the usage of the same so that we can make full use of it.

Sunday, 13 March 2011

Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet.

Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet.

Few days back I came across a statement which after reading made me think, what is the reality behind “Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet”. You must have come across people saying things about you which you are not aware of i.g your voice is wonderful. Why it happens that people around us can make out what is good in us and we are unable to understand that? As a fact I know two kinds of person around us. (i) People who knows what is good in that (people who are able to open the packet). (ii) People who don’t know what is best in them. Both the category of people can live happy but people who know good in them are happy from all the directions. Here comes the questions how to know what is good in us? I just know one way to do so, that is by deep self-thinking. I personally feel if we all know the good part of us that can make world to move in positive direction, no one will force you to do something you are not good at and you will be able to grow in the correct direction with 100% energy and strength.