Sometime I think what is more important between presence and absence of someone in our life. Although we all need people in our life at every step of our life but at many times we want someone should not come in front, sometimes we don’t want someone to go away from life and sometime we don’t want someone to come in our life. I always get confused in these lines and so writing this such that I can get the comments from you people on the same.
As per my point of view we should take time in understanding a person before we let him/her to enter our life and once that person come in our life he/she is ours forever. On the other hand we can control things like this from one end, i.e ours but what if we made a mistake in understanding the person or after spending some time you realize that both of you cannot move together? That happens in our life everyday and that is the reason people come and go from our lives.
What should happen if someone goes away from your life? Should we have a option left for that person to come back in any form or by any relation? What should happen if after some time you realize that you want that that person should come back in your life? Once again I get confused by all such questions and as a fact I don’t have any answer. I believe once a person goes away from your life or you move away from your life there should not be any way to come/go back.
Its about one's beliefs. There are people who believe in 2nd chance or for that matter nth chance while others don't. People will move in and out of your life and many times you won't even realize it. Remember people have a role to play in your life and once their role is over they may or may not leave. As for your belief goes stick with it as it was formed for some reason; but you make a few exceptions as well :)
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