Change in Values

I am back again to share my thoughts on human values and change in them.

What I feel is values differ from person to person, but there are certain values which are associated to human and not with person. We humans using innovation created many things which can make our life easy and fast, is that 100% true? Today I just want to talk about a specific change which was invented many years back which now is the most important part of our lives, yes I am talking about money as in some piece of paper(s) and coins which we use to buy something and we get the same when we sell some object, this is what is known as trade in very simple words, I just want to are we using money just for trade? If someone will ask this to me then my answer will be no, today we no longer use money to trade items of our use, but we have started trading our lives as well with and for money. If I ask you, if I am ready to give you some good money can you kill someone for me? First question I will get from you will be how much will I give you and after a given value you will say yes, is money so important? Can I buy someone’s life with money? I guess no, then how can we think of killing someone just for money!! Well as of today I want to talk about a different aspect of money that is money replacing our relations as well? I don’t want to come to any conclusion at this point of that as I need your help for the same. As per my personal experience I have seen changing relation coz of money I can think of some very correct lines “Baapu Bada Na Bhayiya Sabasa Bada Rupiyaa” don’t want to heart anyone’s feeling but it is going as fact now days. People are ready to leave parents/ family/ loved ones just for money. After talking to many of my friends money is no longer just a requirement for us, it is a necessity. We humans are have changed our lifestyle and started acting as a machine which can just generate money and lost basic property coz of which we are known as humans that is emotions. I have come across people from all parts of globe and found no one is actually happy because of this change. I want a loud question are we doing anything to change this? Just a small comparison, from 50 years down the line (just moving to a generation up) percentage of parents living alone were 1-5%, if I compare it with today it is between 35-50%, again a questions for you people is this fare? I have heard people saying to parents you live there and I will give you money on a regular basis! In general family with 2-3 kids starts thinking on who will take care of parents as their parents approaching 60 (Retirement year), they will start dividing the responsibilities as they (parents) will be their responsibility. I have also come across parents going for job even after 60 just for money, is that correct? If you will ask them they will give you a sweet answer “We/I do it not for money but to invest time” a statement to hide their biggest fear, what will happen if child will ask them they can’t take care of them. I know I can’t stop this but through this I want to convey a small message that is please don’t do this. I strongly condemn use of money against emotions.


At the end just make this “Baapu Bada Na Bhayiya Sabasa Bada Rupiyaa” false and start in a direction where importance of money should be well defined in life.

Are We proud to be What We Are??

I come across a question and would like to share the question and my thoughts.

One fine day my inner self asked a question to myself “Are you happy to be what you are”, trust me I was unable to sleep that night as I am so confused in thinking the same. Well this questions has many meanings to it, if I ask this to Human as a entity then question will be are we happy to be humans? If I ask this question to myself then question will be more on my life the way I lived till now and am I happy to see myself where I am standing as per my career stage? Well to answer second question it can be a very job for some, but today I like to have a look on both the sides of the same coin for my first question. Well my journey to get the answer starts from books which is also our history, we humans had done so many good things to make peoples life easy, we have done so much of development in terms of science that it seems to be a truth that god created the best creatures on earth known as humans. Our history is really very quite when one tries to find the positive side of the story but we are really proud to be the best creatures created by god. After rearing many such books I asked the same questions to myself, my answer lies in the fact that I have to read all the books which should say real story. We humans as best creatures of god and the worst creatures! If we cant love each other then how we are best? If you go in history then you will find we humans have created this path of success over dead bodies of humans only! I really cant compare humans with any other animal created by god as per my findings we humans are the worst creatures created by god. It is recorded with golden words how son killed father and vice versa just to some money or something else, a girl killed her boyfriend/husband and vice versa just for fun, I read many such things in history books and thought what ever happened has happened and now humans has changed but even present of humans are as same as history, today also people killing people just for nothing. Well at the end I would again say that atleast I am not proud to be a human, well if you feel anything else then please share it with me, also 1st questions is still not answered we will take that sometime later.

We Live Forever

We get birth and that is starting of our life, thereon we never look back, just move on and on and on. Best phase in anyone’s life is the time of Love that phase makes us very happy and put us on a different track. I have come across people saying a very common thing during that phase “Jeena Marna Saath Hai” well reading further you will find many questions which I request you all to answer if possible. Well let me start with my first question; is it possible to die? If you will ask me then I will say no, as I have never seen even a single person dying. I have one more question, is death true? My take will be “Zindagi to bewafa hai ek din thukraagi, Moot Mahbooba hai saath leke jayagi”, person never dies but the attributes shown by one stops and that is how life moves on. We still remember people we lost way back we even remember people whom we never met nor seen them, but we remember them because of their attributes, if what I just said is true then way we says death as the biggest truth? One can look life as a round circle where every phase contributes in the cycle while others think it is a straight line having different slots for each phase of life and death is the end. I will end this with a question, what is truth?

First Coffee !!

Like many others I am also miles away from cooking, and least interested in same :), this is a true story about a person who was a student at that time and he was studying chemistry, he started preparing for exam at 8 o clock in night, time passed like air flow without telling anyone and when he saw his watch it was already 2:00 AM, all the family members were sleeping and he wanted a cup of coffee. He decided to make one for himself. He went to Kitchen and was unable to make where to start, he dint even know how to switch on the gas cylinder, he end up calling one of his friend at 2:15AM, and asked her to tell the steps to make a coffee, she started laughing like anything and then she told him. That single coffee took more then 2 hrs to come out of Kitchen and he enjoyed it for next 2 hrs :). Next day everyone (friends) were talking about coffee only and he was just smiling, at that time he realized how important it is to know some small things like cooking. Well at the end it is a truth and that boy is me :)