Language Of Love

Everyone and anyone in this world talks about feelings/love/care etc. it wonders to me, what is the language in which one can talk about it? Do we have any language for this?

The language we use (English/Hindi etc) are they sufficient? Are these languages capable of talking about love? Does one really need a language to talk about this?

I know I have raised bit too many questions and that purely because I don’t have answer to any of these. As far as my knowledge about feelings and love, they are language independent i.e any language can be used to express these, but that really raises a question, what will happen if one can’t speak (mum)? Simple answer is he/she can express the feelings, is that correct? No they can still express feelings by using actions which is there to express the feelings, that is really a strange right? This is possible because we can understand what is expressed by actions by other, but is always true?

Can we understand all the actions by anyone around us? I will leave answer to this question for future. I always felt that yes, I can understand feelings from everyone, but we have so many living things around us, they all express love, they all have feelings which they express to us and most of the time we can’t understand that. Few days back I was talking to one of my friend, she was thinking to have a pet dog but she decided not to do that by giving a statement “They get attached to us so much that without us they feel alone and at the end they die” that scared me, how can a dog/animal die due to absence of master! How can a dog be attached to us? Is that the way to express feelings to us? Do your pet really wanted to be with you always and without you they might stop eating and die at the end? Do we understand this way of expressing feelings? If I believe this then we can understand feelings expressed in any way, is that correct? Think again. Have we ever realized the trees, plants flowers also express feelings? Bit strange right? As per my experience plants around us also wants care from us and in absence of which they can die L. Most of us places some or other plan in our home, when we plant them in home we pay some extra attention towards them later on we don’t even look at them and after some time we realizes that, plant is not there, after we ask someone in family the answer we get is “That plan was not growing well and was about to die so we replaced that with new one” we generally think that due to lack of light/water etc that happened, well it that 100% correct? Think that again.

I saw a movie few days back “hachiko” that movie talks about love and care that a animal can have for us. Please share your thoughts on this..

Wavelengths(ƛ) and vibrations(µ)

The best you can relate wavelengths and vibrations is physics right? Well that is very correct these words comes from science only and we all know science makes a significant impact in our life as well, just wanted to throw some light on impact of wavelengths and vibrations.

You must have come across a situation where you come across many unknown people at once and out of that group without evening knowing anything about them, you start your analysis i.e who is best for our friendship and with whom you will never wanted to be friends, correct? Have you ever thought why? Sometime just by looking someone’s snap we start analyzing what kind of person he/she will be, and we never get to know how we can do that just by having a look on a snap. Here comes science into picture, every object emits energy in terms of wavelengths and vibrations, like wise we also do the same, now whenever we meet a similar vibrations/wavelength we gave a positive signals and vice-versa. It goes true while we are doing shopping, before we try things on us we just look on that item and makes an initial decision, don’t you? People tend to justify it by saying it is not of our taste etc.. but at the end of the day it we a because of same principle of physics. Have you ever thought we like just few colors out of millions of colors we have around us? Just by knowing kind of color one likes the most and lease one can predict what kind of person he/she can be, and yes the reason we like only few colors is again because of same old physics. Now since we know the role played by ƛ and µ next thing is the usage of the same so that we can make full use of it.

Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet.

Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet.

Few days back I came across a statement which after reading made me think, what is the reality behind “Everyone is gifted, people don’t open the packet”. You must have come across people saying things about you which you are not aware of i.g your voice is wonderful. Why it happens that people around us can make out what is good in us and we are unable to understand that? As a fact I know two kinds of person around us. (i) People who knows what is good in that (people who are able to open the packet). (ii) People who don’t know what is best in them. Both the category of people can live happy but people who know good in them are happy from all the directions. Here comes the questions how to know what is good in us? I just know one way to do so, that is by deep self-thinking. I personally feel if we all know the good part of us that can make world to move in positive direction, no one will force you to do something you are not good at and you will be able to grow in the correct direction with 100% energy and strength.

Game of Past and Present

This is the time we need to think and move ahead. I have personally seen many people creating problems in present coz of past. I agree that past can make an impact in present but there has to be a time when one needs to get out of past and start living in present so that happiness can flow in. I have seen many people wanted to move out of past but the people nearby (people we stay with and are a part of our life) really don’t want that to happen and they always brig past in present and that takes our happiness away. I really wanted to people to grow up and let other live with happiness. Sometimes I fail to understand why people interferes in others life? Why just can’t they leave things the way they are when they can’t help it? I strongly believe majority of problems we see in our life is because of things from past impacting present, I am really confused why people do this to life?

Angel Vs Devil

Whenever I see people reacting differently, it raises a question in my mind, why people do that? If same person can react differently then what can be the reason for that? Whenever I ask this question to people around me I get mix of answers pointing towards, “it is human nature”, that raises a new question is that answer to my question? Today morning just thinking about this and came up with a different answer so just wanted to share the same with you all. It seems that we have an Angel and a Devil inside us, at every moment that fight with each other and we react accordingly that is if Angel wins we react in a very good way and when ever Devil wins we react other way. There are set of people I have seen always react in negative way, so as per my thought it’s always devil that wins over angel inside them. I have started a comparative analysis between angel and devil, as per stories we heard in our child age it is always angel who wins over devil but I am thinking on the fact that who should win this battle, as sometimes it is really important for humanity to devil to win and sometimes its other way round. I don’t know if this war between angel and devil is important and required? I also want to know is there a way to live without this war?

Please share your thoughts on this…

ONE NIGHT AT MANIPAL

I was in my MCA when I heard that Manipal Medical College is the best medical college in India, this statement was given by one of my friend, her brother was doing some medical course from Manipal. I never thought that I will ever get a chance to see that place in life, but as a fact life is very unpredictable. The moment comes just after I got married and I went to Sikkim along with my life partner and unfortunately she was not feeling good as she had some bad food in day time by mistake and by same evening she was really in a bad shape so I decided to take medical help, I end up calling our hotel’s reception from where I got to know Manipal is the nearest and best hospital nearby, so we decided to go there, using local transport we entered in MANIPAL.

I reached reception and ask for physician and out of 4 persons none responded at the end I saw a doctor and asked him if he can give me some input after his help I took my wife to emergency room and asked 2 sisters for my next steps, which was to get the file created for new patient. I rushed to registration counter (which was on the other extreme of the hospital), I was able to find a counter on which “NEW registrations” was written but no one was there on the other side of the glass. I approached a boy sitting at counter number 4 and asked if someone will come to counter number 1, his answer was wait someone will come and help you. After waiting for 10 min I was forced to stop a conversation going on between 2 ladies at counter number 3 and one of them told me that I need to stay at counter number 2. And then she came to counter number 2, I asked her I need to register a new patient and she said ok, then she shouted on me and said have you filled the new registration form on which I said have you gave me any form to be filled till now? Then she is replied no and she gave me a form and a pen, after which she continued her leftover talk at counter 3. In less then 1 min I was able to fill the form and then I said “Madam please come I am done with the form” on which she came and took the same from me and started filling an application form on her system’s software, after looking on my handwriting she asked me few questions as in name of patient and my address, and then she said “give me Rs. 10 first” and gave me a tight glance, by then I took Rs. 10 from my pocket and handed over to her. At last I got new file and started running towards other corner of the hospital (Emergency room), the way was so clean that even after using double peace of couth on my face I was able to feel the freshness (I was able to reach my destination and I was alive). Moment I reached there they brought a dead body in the emergency room (“emergency room for dead body ???”) by the time I left my wife and I reached back her condition has deteriorated, I handed over the file to sister and asked her to call some doctor ASAP. Fortunately I was after a long time I was able to see a doctor and it’s the same doctor which we saw the moment we moved in the Hospital (“It was more than 1 Hrs we were in Hospital and hospital and patient was unattended”) doctor had a look on my wife and asked few questions and then asked me bring some medicine from shop, I asked doctor where can I find the shop on which he said near to registration desk (“next corner of the hospital”), I started running towards that corner. Once again conditions was almost same, there were few people at the shop and everyone was talking on mobile (“with lots of smile and laugh”). I waved my hand and handed over slip to that person he took around 10 min to come back to me with all the required medicines and then my wait for someone to come to billing counter starts which again took around 5 min and after payment I started running back. By the time I reached back complete floor was stinking like hell and emergency room was the worst. I handed over the medicine to sister. She use one injection and asked me to wait along with wife on which I asked her (sister) do you people have any other room or place where we can stay, answer was “NO”. and after 5 min my wife started feeling better and then we moved out from that room and moved towards registration counter as I was able to see few sitting desk there. And I asked her to sit there for some time by then I wanted to talk to doctor about other details like by when we can leave from hospital and what all precautions and medicines were supposed to be taken.

After spending close to 3 hrs we were all set to go back to our hotel, and we started moving back to our hotel.

If this is the condition of the best medical hospital in India then where are we moving towards? In recent news papers I read number of medical students will be increased, how about the quality of hospitals?