We humans are surrounded my relations from all the sides, majority of these are created by us to make us happy. With so many relations we create lines of priorities to separate one from another, but there are some relations for whom we don’t have any line and those relations are not created by us, they are god gifted. Today I want to throw some light on one of the relations, RELATION WITH PARENTS.
We get parents as god gift and they act as our mentors for our life, they tell us the difference between right-wrong, good-bad, we respect them more then god and we are ready to anything for there happiness. Well I have a question here, do we actually do that? One can answer this as “yes” and “no”. Do we actually follow their learning’s in our life? I guess the best answer for this would be yes we follow them but with modifications. We customize the learning as per us and then we follow them in our life, is that correct?
We do many things in our life and go sad or happy with the result of it, the most important part in that is our parents they also go happy and sad with us, but we ignore that in most of the cases. Is this what they deserve?
Once we grow up we starts taking decisions in our life, and the bad side of this is we either don’t include our parents in our decision or we ignore their opinion, we generally say its our life and let us live the way we want to life. There are cases when we children starts treating them as slaves or as burden on us, which I feel this is greatest sin and we should realize it.
In this relation the worst thing that we do is, we do many things in our life which are not only wrong as per them but they are wrong as per us as well but we behave in front of them as if we are the best child in this whole world and we never did anything wrong in our life, and by doing this we create a guilt in us which never goes out from us, I feel we should not maintain any relation just for sake of having a relation but we should maintain a relation because want that relation for us.
By writing this blog I just want to bring few things that we should not do with our parents and by this I don’t want to heart anyone’s feelings.
