Moving in n out

Sometime I think what is more important between presence and absence of someone in our life. Although we all need people in our life at every step of our life but at many times we want someone should not come in front, sometimes we don’t want someone to go away from life and sometime we don’t want someone to come in our life. I always get confused in these lines and so writing this such that I can get the comments from you people on the same.

As per my point of view we should take time in understanding a person before we let him/her to enter our life and once that person come in our life he/she is ours forever. On the other hand we can control things like this from one end, i.e ours but what if we made a mistake in understanding the person or after spending some time you realize that both of you cannot move together? That happens in our life everyday and that is the reason people come and go from our lives.

What should happen if someone goes away from your life? Should we have a option left for that person to come back in any form or by any relation? What should happen if after some time you realize that you want that that person should come back in your life? Once again I get confused by all such questions and as a fact I don’t have any answer. I believe once a person goes away from your life or you move away from your life there should not be any way to come/go back.

Movie touching people

We find out many ways to make ourselves happy, watching movies are one way for the same, I am sure we all watches movies either in movie theater of in home. Today after reaching to office me and my friend were feeling bored so we decided to watch a movie in theater and we thought of a movie and moved from office, after reaching to theater we found that due to some technical problems the movie we wanted to see was not to be shown so we asked person sitting in tickets counter to give us 2 tickets for whatever movie is going to start in next 15 min, and he gave us “TOY STORY 3”, movie started and since I never likes toys to much to I was not enjoying the movie to start with, on the other hand my friend used to play with many toys in his childhood age and so he got connected with the movie, during intermission I said “It seems I am over aged for the movie” on which he said NO, after taking few things to eat and drink we came back on our seats to watch the movie. The second half of the movie was very emotional as it was around the facts that when a kid grows he/she stops playing with toys and then he need to decide if he wants to give the toys to someone or just wanted to throw them.

Movie was going on and then I realized a weeping sound, when I looked at my friend I found he was crying, I asked him what happened in reply he said nothing, I didn’t asked him again as I was able to understand the cause of that.

Few interesting questions to ask:

1. Is it true that we will remain kids whatever be our age?
2. We don’t connect to things happening around as, but we get connected to a movie?
3. Is it true to say movies are somewhere from realities only?